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10 Adoption Myths and Realities
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Myth 1: Adoption is outrageously expensive and out of reach for most families.

Fact: Adoption is often no more expensive than giving birth – averaging around $15,000 for both domestic and international adoptions. Costs vary by agency and may be related to how the agency is funded, where their children come from and what services they provide to birth parents and adoptive families. ... For more Adoption myths and myth-busters, you can download our Plan To Adopt Resource Packet here.

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We hope Plan to Adopt will be your main resource! The following is a list of what we Will and Won't Do for a client .

What Plan to Adopt will do:

  • Meet with prospective parents, either in person or by telephone, to discuss family needs and circumstances.
  • Evaluate the family’s situation through the use of the Adoption Assessment Questionnaire and personal meetings.
  • Formulate a written plan for each family that is unique to that family. ...more here.

What Plan to Adopt will not do:

  • Facilitate the adoption of stepchildren, identified children or foster children.
  • Provide services that would necessarily be provided by a licensed social worker...more here.

For a complete list and other valuable information, please downlad the Plan to Adopt Resource Packet here.

A recent Google search on the word “adoption” revealed over 128 million results! This is, of course, overwhelming. Needless to say, there is lots of information about adoption on the Internet. To get you started, the following websites are recommended:

Adopting.com ( http://www.adopting.com ) Here you will find everything prospective adoptive parents need to know about adopting, including how to get started; links to hundreds of adoption agencies, facilitators and attorneys...more!

Adoption.com ( http://www.adoption.org ) This site serves and supports the needs of birthparents, adoptive parents and adoption professionals. They sponsor on-line chat groups, classified ads and many other interesting items.

Adoption Learning Partners (http://www.adoptionlearningpartners.org/
) Seeks to improve adoption outcomes for all members of the adoption circle by providing a vibrant, innovative, educational resource on the Internet. The vision of Adoption Learning Partners is to offer highly valuable, timely, web-based educational resources for adoptive parents, adopted individuals, birth parents and the families that love them.

Child Welfare Information Gateway (http://www.childwelfare.gov/) This site is a service of the Children’s Bureau of the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services and is a great resource regarding adoption agencies licensed in each state, services to adoptive families available from each state, publications about the adoption process, financing adoption and other topics of interest to prospective adoptive families.

Adoption Expressions (http://www.adoptionexpressions.homestead.com/index.html Services to assist hopeful adopting parents in the design and creation of adoption profiles ("Dear Birthparent Letters") and adoption webpages, the two most effective networking tools.  Adoptive parent to 3 children with over 14 years experience in the adoption field.

International Adoption Stories (http://www.internationaladoptionstories.com) International adoption stories and adoption agency information from Russia, Kazakhstan, Guatemala and China. Includes information on adoption costs and financing, medical and health advice, parenting tips and news.

National Adoption Center (http://www.adopt.org) This site can be used to view waiting children across the U.S., research adoption information, order books and other information, participate in on-line chats and introduce children to adoption information geared especially for them.

Rainbow Kids (http//www.rainbowkids.com) This site is considered the Internet's central location for adoption information, international adoptions, special needs adoption, adoption articles and Waiting Child photo listings.

Southern Piedmont Adoptive Families of America, Inc. (SPAFA) (http://www.spafa.org) An adoptive parent support group formed to provide information, education and emotional support, and encouragement to couples and individuals who desire to build or expand their families through adoption. 

WelcomeGarden.com (http://www.welcomegarden.com) The Welcome Garden, a reknown international adoption photolisting service, was created to encourage adoption and remember the children who have not a "forever family".

For more sites we recommend, you can download our Plan To Adopt Resource Packet here. and updated Resources Packet here.

Magazines, Newsletters & Guides
Newsgroups & Message Boards
Adoptive Families, published by New Hope Media LLC. For subscriptions, call 1-800-372-3300 or go to www.adoptivefamilies.com. Subscriptions are $29.95 per year. Please see our ad in the March 2006 issue!

Adoption Today Magazine, a guide to the issues and answers surrounding international and domestic adoption is written by adoptive parents, adoptees and professionals in the fields of medicine, education, law, social work, child development and international and domestic adoption. Subscriptions are $24 per year and may be obtained from http://adoptionshop.com.

Adoptive Families 2008 Guide: Whether you're adopting for the first time, considering adopting again, or interested in keeping up with the latest adoption news and trends, the Adoptive Families Annual Adoption Guide will provide you with detailed, accurate information you won't find anywhere else. For prospective adopters, this valuable resource includes a step-by-step overview of the adoption process as well as listings for hundreds of adoption agencies, support organizations and attorneys nationwide.This guide is available from www.theadoptionguide.com for $14.95.

For more information, please check out our Plan To Adopt Resource Packet here.

 

On-Line Chat Groups, Message Boards, Email Lists, Bulletin Boards and Newsgroups

There is a huge and growing number of adoption email lists that provide a wonderful opportunity for support and the exchange of information. They range from general adoption lists to lists for specific discussion of topics like cross cultural adoption, adoption from specific countries, open adoption, single adoptive parents, and more. There are a variety of bulletin boards and newsgroups available as well as adoption chat forums. For a comprehensive list, as well as instructions on how to subscribe to all of these lists and others, please visit http://www.adopting.com/groups.html. You can also search through Yahoo! Groups to locate specific email groups related to your interest. There are dozens in existence – and you can always start a new one! For more information, go to http://www.yahoogroups.com .

For more information, please check out our Plan To Adopt Resource Packet here.


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